As we prepared for our journey to South America, we consulted our Chilean friend, Poli – and she in turn talked with her family and friends still in different parts of Chile.  (How do we know Poli?  short story:  Jason went to Chile 20+ years ago for Poli and Joe’s wedding, we’ve kept in touch with them and met up a few times when our kids were smaller – ask Jason to share more stories of the wackiness from his first Chilean adventure)    We were given some lovely advice that I used to create the framework on our trip in Chile.   Once w